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Any relationship could be compared with balancing books in business.Fairness and exchange of mutual satisfaction of each other needs.Part 2
Dr. Yaroshevsky is talking about the process of forming and developing individual ego stracture and parents’ role in providing the material/briks for building the ego
Guilt and shame are the building blocks of the character. We learn early that praise is the reward for “right” behaiviours and punishment is inevitable
Dr. Yaroshevsky is talking about child-centred families which are based on “parentification” where the parents put their child in a position to tell, directly or indirectly, the parents what to do
Families where the child is not tought to control his emotions. They didn’t “toilet trained” the childs ability to regulate behaviour and impulses.
Dr. Yaroshevsky is encouraging not to “triangulate”; not to talk negatively to the partner about their parents, siblings, family
Importance of trust and reliance on the provider of help in psychology therapy
Dr. Felix Yaroshevsky: Maturity is measured by ability to delay gratification and tolerate ambivalence
Relational trinity: control, trust and distance which create an oposit proportion of the degree of importance of the two of them vs the one
When we have complete control – we don’t need trust and distance
Dr. Felix Yaroshevsky thinks that independence has different degrees of allowing of the child to move away and obtain selfsufficiency
All of the family relational processes need to be assessed in a transparent way in presence of every member
Dr. Yaroshevsky thinks that triangle of the child and parents often based on the two of the three of the same sex competing vs. the one of the oposit
Repetition is contaminated by the previous experience
Dr. Yaroshevsky emphasize that awareness of the sadistic tendencies leads to ability to control these potentials
Depression as a reaction to loss
Obsessions – repetitive actions and preocupations
